Today’s informational flow and the development of various technologies rarely can surprise to anyone. The only subject, the relevance of which will probably never be quenched, is a personal human life. This topic has somehow always found stakeholders, and especially popular is such aspect of private life as the search for the second half and marriage. The society does not stop to be surprised by gay or uneven marriages, which in recent years are more and more common. For some reason, a lot of attention is paid to unequal marriage, in which a woman is older. Oh, these prejudices, perhaps people will never cease to condemn something that goes beyond the usual and what they cannot understand. Every year, the number of such couples is increasing and it is clear that these couples are constantly in the center of attention.
You cannot call an unequal marriage immoral; it is a normal social phenomenon. After all, such situations are found in the history and culture of many peoples, in literature and cinema. The lady is made for love and looking for it and after finding it, she does not care whether it is a youthful guy or a mature man. Feelings are obstinate, and young boys can fall in love with a bride older than him. Especially it concerns the Russian ladies, who are able to awaken the senses, even in the coldest man. But in these ladies they are not looking for beauty, as in young ones, they want to know the passion comes from a middle-aged, but filled with the life ones. These ladies stand out among the gray masses, in spite of the little wrinkles around the eyes; they conquer the hearts of the adolescent.
What is attractive in a mature lady?
Women are like flowers, once they fall in love and feel loved, they immediately flourish. They just become more beautiful with age, and many crossed the threshold of 30-40 years acquire real femininity and romance. Adolescent guys pay attention to the passionate women who combine sensitivity and passion and not afraid to show it all to her lover.
Adult wives are often preferable to the young in the sense that they have sexual experience and spiritual development. In Russia, by the way, people pay attention to the care of the soul and self-development. Young girls living dreams of princes consider a boyfriend has to do everything for them. Otherwise they drew hysteria or begin to behave like a naughty doll. Older ladies have already outgrown such behavior and act much more tactful and more balanced; they know how to behave with a man.
What stimulates the mature ladies to get acquainted with the young?
A woman will acquaint with a young man only if she is confident in her feelings. This decision is not easy, and it can change the whole life. Many ladies would like to marry a young husband because are tired of men of similar age who have forgotten how to live a full life. Youthful ones instead have energy, enthusiasm. Wanting something is no enough; you also need to be able to act. That is the problem, since not everyone work up the courage to act according to the heart, in spite of reason and the opinion of society.
Fate or chance, everyone calls it differently, disposes independently, so can we blame the woman that her lover was born later than she? It is constantly being told that love is for all ages, no one outraged couples, in which husbands are older their wives for 20-30 years, but society unreasonably is not ready to approve a situation where the bride is older. And most important thing really is not the age, but the feelings that one person feels towards another.
Secret of success
What is the secret of the popularity of adult women among adolescent men? The first thing that comes to mind is sexual desire or money. But it is not the reality anymore. The days have passed when there is a picture in one’s head, on which the old lady with money and a boy-gigolo. Modern lady of 30-45 years knows her worth and does not look like an old lady. They are beautiful, self-confident, and self-sufficient. These women are ready to help her man, support in difficult times and to substitute their fragile shoulders, when needed.
Age – a barrier?
Upon reaching adulthood, women gain more experience and begin to understand life better, in conversation with the young ones they may seem quite good psychologists. An adult wife is able to see the strengths of a man and learned not to focus on the weaknesses. She can be a good adviser, a strong support and a loyal friend at the same time, without scandals and tantrums because of any trivia. These women are able to understand many things and teach less experienced men everything necessary. In addition, they often have a rich sexual experience which conquers a lot of guys.
Among women, there is a certain type, which is endowed with maternal instinct – the need to care about someone. They are often a good match for insecure or in need of care youths.
The fact that the wife is older does not mean that she knows everything.
Sexual needs of young girls and adult women do not differ much, the difference in their partners. It is evident that an adult male is not always able to satisfy his partner as it can make a younger guy. This is another reason why women are seeking youthful men.
In fact, age, opinions, prejudices, are just nothing. We must learn not to pay attention to it, and to live as our heart and soul want. What is the difference how old a person is, if they love each other? Life passes too quickly and it is stupid to spend it on inhibitions and prejudice.